The Philosophy of Club Grinding

Women tend to twerk in Nightclubs, and grinding ensues, which is when fully clothed people hump each other for sexual pleasure. I didn’t mention age because you need an ID to get into these clubs anyway, so worrying about age is taken out of the equation.

The Woman is gyrating her hips while dancing to the Club Music(Twerking) which is fun for her because she can be provocative and teasing to Men in general in a safe environment. Men who misbehave get thrown out by the bouncer, so these Women enjoy a measure of Power. 

In a way, this is like a Free Cheese Sampler Platter at a Supermarket.

How can a man know if he has Physical Chemistry with a Woman if he doesn’t know how her butt feels moving around against his lap?

But, just like a sampler platter, you don’t get to bogart all the cheese, and you can’t just take a whole box home without paying for it. 

This is Physical Affection at the Acquaintanceship Level. It is not that serious. It is low-pressure social interaction in which elevation of social status with said Woman may or may not happen.

Think of this as “Low Barrier to Entry” Sexuality. Playing hard to get is a normal part of the Casual Dating Game, but there must be some low-hanging fruit to stimulate the Local Economy and vet new Players into the game with a minimal amount of effort.

These Twerking Dance Moves by Women often showcase the inherent Hip Bone Structure Differences between Men and Women, as well as the shape of the Spine. The Calculus of Motion defining the Woman in this Visual Feast for the Eyes is the Blooming of the Flower that attracts the Pollinating Bees that buzz around her. 

Fortune favors the bold, however, as it does in many subjects. The wallflowers who dare not approach lack the confidence that she desires, contrasting the boldness of the men who take her up on her offer in the opportunity of the moment.

This is an Introductory Offering, which may or may not initiate a Relationship Narrative. A Social Narrative is built over many Nights, just as habits form slowly, and people get used to each other. Your chances with her will increase in probability the more she sees you, as do your chances of taking her home as your trophy in the game of the Human Mating Dance.

Just as there are Winners in any game, there are also Losers. The wallflowers are only observers or lurkers that watch the Game. The Players are those that may either Win or Lose the Game. Losing the Game implies going home alone, or getting thrown out for ill behavior. Playing the long game, however, brings subjective interpretation into the mix. You may have lost the battle for now, but you may yet win the War.